Occasion HandbookFunerals 13 examples

Christian Sympathy Messages

Lines for a card where you know the family shares the faith. If you are not certain they do, use a plain message instead — scripture sent to someone who does not believe it can read as an argument.

Written for a believing family

  1. 1 Praying for you and your family, and giving thanks for a life spent in service.
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  2. 2 We are holding you in prayer this week and for as long as it takes.
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  3. 3 With sympathy, and with confidence in the hope she held so firmly.
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  4. 4 Your father’s faith was the quietest and steadiest thing about him. We are praying for you.
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  5. 5 Praying for peace for all of you. No reply needed.
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  6. 6 Our whole house is praying for yours.
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Scripture that is often chosen

The verses below are quoted from the King James Version, which is in the public domain. Any modern translation is under copyright — copy those from your own Bible rather than from a website.

  1. 7 Psalm 34:18 — "The LORD is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit." (KJV, public domain)
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  2. 8 Matthew 5:4 — "Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted." (KJV, public domain)
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  3. 9 Psalm 23:4 — "Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me." (KJV, public domain)
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  4. 10 Revelation 21:4 — "And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes." (KJV, public domain)
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When you are not sure of their faith

  1. 11 Thinking of you, and holding you in my thoughts this week.
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  2. 12 Sending you every good wish I have. I am so sorry.
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  3. 13 I am sorry for your loss.
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Questions people actually ask

Is it appropriate to put a Bible verse in a sympathy card?

Yes, when you know the family shares that faith. When you do not know, a plain message is the safer and kinder choice.

Which Bible translations can I quote freely?

The King James Version and the World English Bible are in the public domain. Most modern translations are under copyright, so quote those from a printed Bible for a private card rather than republishing them.