Occasion HandbookNew baby 12 examples

Baby Shower Wishes for a Friend

With a close friend the card can do something the others cannot: promise a specific thing you will actually do.

The warm ones

  1. 1 You are going to be so good at this, and on the days you are not, I will be there.
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  2. 2 I cannot wait to meet them and immediately be their favourite.
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  3. 3 Twenty years of friendship and this is the most excited I have seen you.
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  4. 4 So happy for you. Genuinely, properly happy.
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The offers that count

The most useful baby shower card contains a dated promise.

  1. 5 I am bringing food in week two, when everyone else has stopped coming.
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  2. 6 I will take the 3 a.m. phone call. Put my name on the list.
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  3. 7 I will come and hold the baby while you shower. That is the offer.
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  4. 8 I am doing your washing for a month. Do not argue.
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  5. 9 I will walk the dog every day for the first fortnight.
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Funny, if that is your friendship

  1. 10 Congratulations. You have made a person. Slightly showing off.
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  2. 11 I have bought the loudest toy available and I will be giving it to them at eighteen months.
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  3. 12 Delighted for you both. I am going to be a terrible influence.
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Questions people actually ask

What is the best thing to write in a baby card for a close friend?

A specific promise with a time attached. "I am bringing food in week two" is worth more than any amount of well-wishing, because week two is when everyone else stops.