Occasion HandbookGraduation 11 examples

Graduation Messages for a Grandchild, Niece or Nephew

The card from slightly further out in the family. You have the long view, which is the thing the parents are too close to see.

From a grandparent

  1. 1 I remember you refusing to go into the school building on your first day. Look at you now.
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  2. 2 I have watched this from the beginning and I am not surprised, only delighted.
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  3. 3 Congratulations. You are the first of my grandchildren to do this and I intend to mention it often.
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  4. 4 Your grandfather would have driven everyone mad about today.
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  5. 5 Very well done. Come for lunch and tell me all of it slowly.
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From an aunt or uncle

  1. 6 Congratulations. I have been quietly on your side this whole time.
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  2. 7 Well done. If you ever want advice your parents will not give you, you know where I am.
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  3. 8 Delighted for you. Also, I want it known I bought the first laptop.
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The long view

This is what only you can write.

  1. 9 You were the child who took things apart. It turns out that was a career.
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  2. 10 You have been asking impossible questions since you were four. Now someone is paying you for it.
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  3. 11 I have known you your whole life and this is exactly who you were always going to be.
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Questions people actually ask

What do you write in a graduation card from a grandparent?

Something only you remember — a first day, a childhood habit, a question they used to ask. Parents cannot write that, and it is the reason the grandparent card is the one kept.